But I also think its true that most kids start out SFP but can grow up to be different. Kids just naturally tend to be spontaneous, feelers rather than thinkers, and focussed on the present rather than the future. Maturity can bring out planning, logic, and big picture thinking. But not all adults grow out of SFP. My husband is a strong P at age 40 and seems like he will never change in that regard even when logic and experience show him that being spontaneous rather than planning can lead to negative consequences.
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But I also think its true that most kids start out SFP but can grow up to be different. Kids just naturally tend to be spontaneous, feelers rather than thinkers, and focussed on the present rather than the future. Maturity can bring out planning, logic, and big picture thinking. But not all adults grow out of SFP. My husband is a strong P at age 40 and seems like he will never change in that regard even when logic and experience show him that being spontaneous rather than planning can lead to negative consequences.