I'm afraid that extroverts annoy me. I married two, and our needs were not the same. I used artificial substances to match their level.
Now I'm married to an INFP (I'm an HSP INJ), and it's perfect. We rarely see anyone else, except for work or medical reasons; we understand each other well, but allow each other space (although we taught together for five years, and that was wonderful. When people said "I could never be with my husband all day, "I'd think "Who ELSE would you want to be with?)
And although the J and P occasionally clash, usually it works well, as I do not feel under the easy-going P's control, and he usually (*not always) does not mind letting the J keep things running. I've learned to let more things go than I used to -- part of that is just getting older -- and he is more about getting things done (it helps that I am now retired, and he is still working.)
I always see pieces recommending INFJ's partner up with their opposites, and I think, "No way." Esp not an HSP INFJ.
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I'm afraid that extroverts annoy me. I married two, and our needs were not the same. I used artificial substances to match their level.
Now I'm married to an INFP (I'm an HSP INJ), and it's perfect. We rarely see anyone else, except for work or medical reasons; we understand each other well, but allow each other space (although we taught together for five years, and that was wonderful. When people said "I could never be with my husband all day, "I'd think "Who ELSE would you want to be with?)
And although the J and P occasionally clash, usually it works well, as I do not feel under the easy-going P's control, and he usually (*not always) does not mind letting the J keep things running. I've learned to let more things go than I used to -- part of that is just getting older -- and he is more about getting things done (it helps that I am now retired, and he is still working.)
I always see pieces recommending INFJ's partner up with their opposites, and I think, "No way." Esp not an HSP INFJ.