I feel ya friend, I have a crush on an ESTJ guy and we sometimes have problems with that too during coversation. I even think he's quite extreme on that regard, he said "people should take care of their own feelings, not the others", and I'm like, boy oh boy, that's impossible, I'll be caring about everyone's feelings no matter what you say.
Leah INFJ (not verified)says...
I feel ya friend, I have a crush on an ESTJ guy and we sometimes have problems with that too during coversation. I even think he's quite extreme on that regard, he said "people should take care of their own feelings, not the others", and I'm like, boy oh boy, that's impossible, I'll be caring about everyone's feelings no matter what you say.