I have to agree. I'm an ENFJ. . . and as a male, it's unusual. I have an extended cousin who is also strawberry blond and ENFJ as a male. And I know ONE other ENFJ. I'm very empathic with those individuals. I know very few others. A few fun-loving and playful ENTJ types, but very few ENFJ. . the ENFJ cousin and I act alike, gesture alike, and have many other things in common that may have to do more with MC1R. . .
My mother is INTP, and father is ENTP. . . , and neither one is a redhead although mother is chestnut-auburn brown. I have no siblings to compare, but my second cousin, who is one of my closest friends, and somewhat like a brother, has an ENFJ spouse. Most of my friends are E types. I tend to be exasperated with I's who are not at least situationally E.
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I have to agree. I'm an ENFJ. . . and as a male, it's unusual. I have an extended cousin who is also strawberry blond and ENFJ as a male. And I know ONE other ENFJ. I'm very empathic with those individuals. I know very few others. A few fun-loving and playful ENTJ types, but very few ENFJ. . the ENFJ cousin and I act alike, gesture alike, and have many other things in common that may have to do more with MC1R. . .
My mother is INTP, and father is ENTP. . . , and neither one is a redhead although mother is chestnut-auburn brown. I have no siblings to compare, but my second cousin, who is one of my closest friends, and somewhat like a brother, has an ENFJ spouse. Most of my friends are E types. I tend to be exasperated with I's who are not at least situationally E.