Oh my word! I can totally relate! I'm one of the rare INTJ women of this world. And growing up I can remember being highly extroverted and feeling. But after hitting puberty I guess that's when I really came into my true personality type. And I got stuck with the least desirable one of all for a women, INTJ.
Time passed and I came to accept it, using it to my advantage to study others and to learn about the different behaviors of other people. I was single when my true personality type was revealed. As of yesterday that has changed and I'm finding myself worried that I won't be able to be the warm girlfriend that my beau deserves. How an extroverted, feeling, man like him ever started having feelings for me completely blows my mind.
I will say the grand adventures that we've already had have been incredible, so spontaneous yet somewhat thought out. He's my best friend, and deep down I feel for him. After reading this article I know that it's okay if I don't respond right away, but that I need to come out of my shell and live life without magic formulas. I don't want to come across as pretending to feel, because that would be dishonoring. I just need to learn how to get those feeling that are buried deep to the surface.
INTJ WOMAN!! (not verified)says...
Oh my word! I can totally relate! I'm one of the rare INTJ women of this world. And growing up I can remember being highly extroverted and feeling. But after hitting puberty I guess that's when I really came into my true personality type. And I got stuck with the least desirable one of all for a women, INTJ.
Time passed and I came to accept it, using it to my advantage to study others and to learn about the different behaviors of other people. I was single when my true personality type was revealed. As of yesterday that has changed and I'm finding myself worried that I won't be able to be the warm girlfriend that my beau deserves. How an extroverted, feeling, man like him ever started having feelings for me completely blows my mind.
I will say the grand adventures that we've already had have been incredible, so spontaneous yet somewhat thought out. He's my best friend, and deep down I feel for him. After reading this article I know that it's okay if I don't respond right away, but that I need to come out of my shell and live life without magic formulas. I don't want to come across as pretending to feel, because that would be dishonoring. I just need to learn how to get those feeling that are buried deep to the surface.