That is a problem (I have the same one). I’ve been interested in an INTJ guy for awhile now and I am one myself. But with us INTJs, there’s no flirting. So my method tends to be just stare at the person (only until they notice) and find excuses to be around them, but also I have the tendency to want to hide any indication that I like someone. I’m pretty sure he knows something is going on, but I’m not going to do anything about it, and I doubt he will. Can’t even tell if he’s interested. Just that he can tell that I’m being weird around him. But who knows. I’m oblivious so maybe it’s super obvious to everyone but me. But then again, he’s also an INTJ so...
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That is a problem (I have the same one). I’ve been interested in an INTJ guy for awhile now and I am one myself. But with us INTJs, there’s no flirting. So my method tends to be just stare at the person (only until they notice) and find excuses to be around them, but also I have the tendency to want to hide any indication that I like someone. I’m pretty sure he knows something is going on, but I’m not going to do anything about it, and I doubt he will. Can’t even tell if he’s interested. Just that he can tell that I’m being weird around him. But who knows. I’m oblivious so maybe it’s super obvious to everyone but me. But then again, he’s also an INTJ so...