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Seriously, when I see INTP now, it's rather very impossible for the person to be what they dreamed in life. INTP complained that she didn't like being expected to be something yet also want to succeed like others. She also didn't like to please anybody. She thought me befriend her is in order to help her succeed and that is an act of treason. She is afraid of her future, but she didn't want to be successful. Or try to not be bullied. Or being respected as she always complained being bullied then poured all the negativity, pain, anxiety to me. Strange because the root of the bullying act is because she can't stand for herself.

I see her problem, I tried to fix it. That is my INTJ animal instinct. I tried to mend things that is broken. I fixed people's problem. I give practical advice. I give a boost of supporting hands. I helped her to be more realistic and rational. Make a plan and making things orderly. I told her to stop imagining what can be happening, just do it. Just stand up and be strong. It's as easy as just doing that, yet when she enters a problem she becomes so defensive as accusing me that gives the advice is misleading and manipulating her into doing things. She can't see which one is the good manipulator and which one is not. They will imagine you as this A person and when you acting out of the A factor, she will accuse you of trying to manipulate her.

INTP妄想。我再说一遍,凭。是多少。Delusional. Not. Rational. They are logical but not realistic. So don't ask them for advice as I don't know how to put up with these folks. I don't know how people able to deal with these people for a long time.

INTJ: I had a main goal and I want to achieve it. By breaking it into minor goals, planning detailed scenarios, and now working on it. Checked and solved, now time to move. INTP: I had a main goal and I want to achieve it. But I don't have minor goals and I'm fine with it. (*someone tried to help them in this) Well there are many ways to Rome, I don't like compromised myself to others and exposing things. Maybe someday.

There you can find an INTJ taking classes and honing their life skills to mastery, asking people, gaining connection, and upgrading their database everyday. While INTP is sitting on their home, reading 30 tabs of wikipedias, playing android games, puzzles, doing their parents' household chores. I also think that MBTI mean nothing now as it can't help any relationship become better, or anyone become better, as it can only stand for self-identification method, nothing more.

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