I agree with those making comments. This article has some biased opinions, and lacks understanding of an ENTJ/INTJ from the INSIDE. As an ENTJ, I find that we are a highly misunderstood minority in the population, especially for women. NTJs are generous folks who simply want the best for everyone they care about. If someone present a problem to me, I ask them to assess their need - just a quick whinge or to look deeply into the issue. I've spent most of my life alone, because it's rare to find someone who 'gets' me, who is courageous enough to commit to honesty, and who makes a conscious decision to NOT play games, regardless of the type of relationship. I've been called 'salt of the earth' because if someone needs help, I'm there. Have rescued several women from domestic violence, even moving one with 2 young daughters 1500 kms overnight. She asked how she could repay me - I said, 'Pay it forward, because you know what to look for now.' That's NTJ in a nutshell. No ego - we simply see what has to happen, and find the resources to make it happen. Plenty of people have helped me when I've been in a pickle. Sometimes we pay cookies into the cosmic cookie jar, and sometimes we take cookies from it. Life's so simple.
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I agree with those making comments. This article has some biased opinions, and lacks understanding of an ENTJ/INTJ from the INSIDE. As an ENTJ, I find that we are a highly misunderstood minority in the population, especially for women. NTJs are generous folks who simply want the best for everyone they care about. If someone present a problem to me, I ask them to assess their need - just a quick whinge or to look deeply into the issue. I've spent most of my life alone, because it's rare to find someone who 'gets' me, who is courageous enough to commit to honesty, and who makes a conscious decision to NOT play games, regardless of the type of relationship. I've been called 'salt of the earth' because if someone needs help, I'm there. Have rescued several women from domestic violence, even moving one with 2 young daughters 1500 kms overnight. She asked how she could repay me - I said, 'Pay it forward, because you know what to look for now.' That's NTJ in a nutshell. No ego - we simply see what has to happen, and find the resources to make it happen. Plenty of people have helped me when I've been in a pickle. Sometimes we pay cookies into the cosmic cookie jar, and sometimes we take cookies from it. Life's so simple.