1. Its better to avoid telling your problems to INTJ's unless you seek solution or some action. We dislike listening for its own sake. In case you do, tell them specifically that you can deal with things your own way. We can be there to help whenever need arises. Choose healthier ways to deal with emotions through writing your thoughts.
2. When any person is in stressed state of mind, they may get at wit's end. So, giving ideas or suggestions are few ways in which INTJ's try to help a person come out of their stressed/unhealthy state of mind.
3. INTJ's will probably thank you if you tell them honestly what you like and dislike about them. We don't mind honest criticism if it helps us in the long run.
4. INFJ's need to learn conflict management and confrontation instead of becoming smothered or unhealthy. Avoiding or escaping situations will not help INFJ's with their growth in life.
5. Irrespective of MBTI type, choose to deal with people problems in adult manner. (Check transactional analysis and ego states)
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1. Its better to avoid telling your problems to INTJ's unless you seek solution or some action. We dislike listening for its own sake. In case you do, tell them specifically that you can deal with things your own way. We can be there to help whenever need arises. Choose healthier ways to deal with emotions through writing your thoughts.
2. When any person is in stressed state of mind, they may get at wit's end. So, giving ideas or suggestions are few ways in which INTJ's try to help a person come out of their stressed/unhealthy state of mind.
3. INTJ's will probably thank you if you tell them honestly what you like and dislike about them. We don't mind honest criticism if it helps us in the long run.
4. INFJ's need to learn conflict management and confrontation instead of becoming smothered or unhealthy. Avoiding or escaping situations will not help INFJ's with their growth in life.
5. Irrespective of MBTI type, choose to deal with people problems in adult manner. (Check transactional analysis and ego states)