This has been so far very helpful and I need advice mainly from INFJs to understand the situation. So I am an ENFP girl, been in long distance with an INFJ guy for months, known each other for years. We had a great chemistry and could talk for hours from politics to the most personal issues...I never had that connection with anyone else like this and he said the same! He recently acted distant, and I know he is under a bit of stress. I adjusted myself to the lowest expectation, but when he didn't even answer my call after a week, I told him that I don't really know him anymore! which he didn't say a word in response. Now I don't understand if he wants me to break the silence between us or he needs space or was it the famous door slam?!
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This has been so far very helpful and I need advice mainly from INFJs to understand the situation. So I am an ENFP girl, been in long distance with an INFJ guy for months, known each other for years. We had a great chemistry and could talk for hours from politics to the most personal issues...I never had that connection with anyone else like this and he said the same! He recently acted distant, and I know he is under a bit of stress. I adjusted myself to the lowest expectation, but when he didn't even answer my call after a week, I told him that I don't really know him anymore! which he didn't say a word in response. Now I don't understand if he wants me to break the silence between us or he needs space or was it the famous door slam?!