I am also an INTJ and have found that the anxiety (and annoyance levels) are a bit less if you let someone else do the planning. That way, if something does go awry it is not your plans going wrong and you can kind of just go with the flow. They do say INTJ's are able to let loose when guided/with the right people. Maybe let you boyfriend make the plans (or at least some ;). If there are passports involved - be in charge of that! ) and try to go with the flow. Enjoy your trip!
Merlot (not verified)says...
I am also an INTJ and have found that the anxiety (and annoyance levels) are a bit less if you let someone else do the planning. That way, if something does go awry it is not your plans going wrong and you can kind of just go with the flow. They do say INTJ's are able to let loose when guided/with the right people. Maybe let you boyfriend make the plans (or at least some ;). If there are passports involved - be in charge of that! ) and try to go with the flow. Enjoy your trip!