I finally don't feel like im an outcast anymore. I'm so different from my family and people that know me. The only one that truely knows me is my husband and luckly he shares the same personality type as me. My husband understands my way of thinking and knows that Im not trying to be rude about certain things. Like for example my wonderful parents had a wedding reception for me and my husband. Because we both just eloped on our own. But my parents felt I needed to have a reception so ok. But as much as I was thankful, I hate social gatherings like that. So my parents think im ungratful and truth be told I am grateful but Iam just not into that stuff. I wish I could have more female friends but everyone just thinks im cold hearted and standoffish. But truth be told I hate large gatherings. Its so weird too because my parents think me and my husband don't do enough social activities but its good to know that me and my husband see nothing wrong with cooking and staying home and reading a good book :)
I have tried to be more social but its such a chore to be social. But being social to my brother comes naturally and people love his I just want to please you mentality. But then again me and my brother are so different that we never talk. Because there is nothing intellectual that I can talk about with my brother, he has HS dipolma and thats it. He could be intellectually smart without any kind of higher education but thats not the case with him. All you can talk to him about is basketball, football, and working out thats about it.
I hope when I go to barnes and noble I can find others that share my personality type so that I can have an intellectually stimulating conversation with other women.
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I finally don't feel like im an outcast anymore. I'm so different from my family and people that know me. The only one that truely knows me is my husband and luckly he shares the same personality type as me. My husband understands my way of thinking and knows that Im not trying to be rude about certain things. Like for example my wonderful parents had a wedding reception for me and my husband. Because we both just eloped on our own. But my parents felt I needed to have a reception so ok. But as much as I was thankful, I hate social gatherings like that. So my parents think im ungratful and truth be told I am grateful but Iam just not into that stuff. I wish I could have more female friends but everyone just thinks im cold hearted and standoffish. But truth be told I hate large gatherings. Its so weird too because my parents think me and my husband don't do enough social activities but its good to know that me and my husband see nothing wrong with cooking and staying home and reading a good book :)
I have tried to be more social but its such a chore to be social. But being social to my brother comes naturally and people love his I just want to please you mentality. But then again me and my brother are so different that we never talk. Because there is nothing intellectual that I can talk about with my brother, he has HS dipolma and thats it. He could be intellectually smart without any kind of higher education but thats not the case with him. All you can talk to him about is basketball, football, and working out thats about it.
I hope when I go to barnes and noble I can find others that share my personality type so that I can have an intellectually stimulating conversation with other women.