"Affectionate words go a long way for many, especially Feelers, who need verbal encouragement to feel good about the relationship." This is exactly what I needed to hear. For an INTJ, everything can be black and white. You're either a good match or you're not. And once you've established that, you're always right and if a partner needs encouragement, then you're not a good match.
值得庆幸的是,我们明智地意识到的probably not how the world works. Feelers need to feel good about the relationship, and that won't happen if INTJs get locked in our roles as cold, somewhat distant logicians who expect a love "set up" to just run smoothly because we invested so much on the front end. Relationships with feelers need constant maintenance and spontaneity.
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"Affectionate words go a long way for many, especially Feelers, who need verbal encouragement to feel good about the relationship." This is exactly what I needed to hear. For an INTJ, everything can be black and white. You're either a good match or you're not. And once you've established that, you're always right and if a partner needs encouragement, then you're not a good match.
值得庆幸的是,我们明智地意识到的probably not how the world works. Feelers need to feel good about the relationship, and that won't happen if INTJs get locked in our roles as cold, somewhat distant logicians who expect a love "set up" to just run smoothly because we invested so much on the front end. Relationships with feelers need constant maintenance and spontaneity.