She means if your friend felt like they failed, or if you saw yourself from the outside would you still consider that friend a failure as you would yourself? I can explain this because my best friend and my mother are both telling me to treat myself like I would my friends. For instance, I feel like I talked about myself the entire time at a party and criticize myself for being too self-centered, but if my best friend did it I wouldn't criticize her for it. (Imaginary scenario, real feelings lol.) At least that's how I see it. ^^
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She means if your friend felt like they failed, or if you saw yourself from the outside would you still consider that friend a failure as you would yourself? I can explain this because my best friend and my mother are both telling me to treat myself like I would my friends. For instance, I feel like I talked about myself the entire time at a party and criticize myself for being too self-centered, but if my best friend did it I wouldn't criticize her for it. (Imaginary scenario, real feelings lol.) At least that's how I see it. ^^